Is it the difficulty that you are facing.
The issue is difficult,it took me long time to think.I don't know whether you would agree with me.
listen to me,
If a man loves a woman,he will change himself for her.But he must remain something inside that can never be changed.If he becomes an absolute strange to himself,the woman won't love him any longer!(perhaps)
The man's idea is naive.No matter which gender the person is,he will change less or more during his lifetime.If he insist on the idea,then he can live with stone together.
BTW: Love include understanding and privity.If there is not privity between them,I believe they can choose other relation.
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